Your adult child is addicted. Your love is keeping them sick.

Learn how to stop enabling, without abandoning them.

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You've tried everything.

You've given money. Made excuses. Bailed them out.

You've lied to protect them. Cleaned up their messes. Paid bills they should be paying.

And nothing is changing. If anything, it's getting worse.

You lie awake wondering if tonight's the call - the one that says they're in the hospital. Or jail. Or gone.


Here's the truth no one wants to tell you:

Every time you rescue them, you remove the discomfort that might push them toward help. Your love isn't the problem. But how you're showing it is keeping them sick.

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You've tried everything.

You've given money. Made excuses. Bailed them out.

You've lied to protect them. Cleaned up their messes. Paid bills they should be paying.

And nothing is changing. If anything, it's getting worse.

You lie awake wondering if tonight's the call - the one that says they're in the hospital. Or jail. Or gone.


Here's the truth no one wants to tell you:

Every time you rescue them, you remove the discomfort that might push them toward help. Your love isn't the problem. But how you're showing it is keeping them sick.

There's a way to love them that actually works.

This free guide shows you how - in 15 minutes:

  • Why your help is backfiring - and why that's not a moral failure

  • The 5-step plan to stop enabling without losing your mind (or your child)

  • Word-for-word scripts for saying no when they guilt you, rage at you, or threaten you

  • How to protect yourself while keeping the door open to recovery

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There's a way to love them that actually works.

This free guide shows you how - in 15 minutes:

  • Why your help is backfiring - and why that's not a moral failure

  • The 5-step plan to stop enabling without losing your mind (or your child)

  • Word-for-word scripts for saying no when they guilt you, rage at you, or threaten you

  • How to protect yourself while keeping the door open to recovery

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Written by someone who knows both sides.

Don Sloane has been sober for 41 years.


He was the addict - drinking a fifth of vodka every few days, body shot, spirit broken. Then he got help. And stayed sober.


For the last two decades, he's helped hundreds of families stop enabling and start creating the conditions for real change. He knows what actually helped him choose recovery - and what would have pushed him further away.

I've sat with parents who check the time before they call because they don't know which version of their child they'll get. Who lie awake waiting for the worst. Who keep saying, 'I miss who they used to be.' This guide is what I wish every one of them knew from the start.


Don Sloane
, Founder of Recovery Care Partner

Families who stopped enabling and saw real change:

"Don was the one he called in his darkest hour. Brandon is two years sober now - living in San Francisco, working a job he loves. He cooked us Thanksgiving dinner last year. No words can express how grateful we are that Don was there when it mattered most."


- Anonymous Parent

"I found the intervention plan from years ago when you helped our daughter get to treatment. She's remained sober ever since. She's now a practicing attorney in a healthy, long-term relationship. You made a difference in this family's life."


- Catherine W.

"We truly could not have done it without him. Within hours of meeting Don, a crisis unfolded. He guided us, educated us, and helped us do something we never could have done alone. We are infinitely grateful."


- Anonymous Family Member

"Don brought strength, confidence, and calm during the scariest time for our family. His guidance before, during, and after treatment was invaluable. He became a resource for our whole family - not just our daughter."


- Cindy D.


Your child's addiction will not wait.

Neither should you.


The version of your child you're trying to save today will be harder to reach tomorrow.

This guide won't fix everything. But it will show you the first steps - clear, practical, and proven by hundreds of families who've walked this road before you.


It's free. It takes 15 minutes. And it might change everything.


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